Why are women treated so much better in relationships?
Men usually pay for dinner, cook dinner, buy gifts, give emotional support, give massages/other pampering, plan and pay for trips, complement women, do other romantic gestures and take care of women when they are sick. Just wondering why women are treated better? Do any women actually do these things? Can any men say they are more spoiled?
Why are modern relationships like this (when things such as cooking dinner, giving massages/pampering, buying gifts,, taking care of when sick, planning trips, compliments and other romantic gestures are things that women stereotypically do?)
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I guess the best way to answer your question is to ask you another one. If you are in a relationship, do you assume that your girlfriend wants you to do everything? If you do, then we are happy to oblige. Whenever we do something for the guys, some of them let their ego’s swell up and just say that THEY are the “men” in this relationship and THEY will handle it. I cook, buy gifts, give emotional support, give massages and all the other stuff you said. But some girls assume that the guys want to do it all themselves and just sit there. And others are just nasty people and are selfish so they just expect the guy to do everything. Just meet the right girl and make sure she knows somehow that it’s okay for her to do stuff for you and you to do stuff for her. It all depends on the person.
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Get real~! Yes I could do those things for someone I loved, but get a reality check. The guys I have been meeting lately lay it on thick and then try to get me in bed which they are not. I thought about reversing the roles but I can’t be that way.